Life is a roller coaster;its full of up's and downs, fun and fear, not knowing what's coming next and that ride lasts only but a few seconds or minutes while life lasts for how every long from 1 year to 100 years. Life is terrifying but, it is your choice to scream with your hands in the air! Or to keep your hands down and pray for it to be over. On a roller coaster we get to choose which ride we go on and same with life, we make our choices and if it's a shitty choice like eating a chili hot dog before a spinning ride then you're screwed but, you can go back and change the choices you've made.
Everything happens for a reason, whether it be we met the worst person in the world and they betrayed you and stabbed you in the back or you bump into a stranger on the road that gives you life advice, everything leads to those little moments and there is a reason and a lesson involved in every encounter. Everything is a lesson, every person, every moment, every little thing is to make you as you are meant to be. Life will always be full of ups and downs, fear and fun, pain and pleasure, our job through this life is to make the best of this life and at times it may suck and there seems to be no way to make good of it but, there is. Someone will come into your life and show you to smile again, there is always sun after it rains even if it rains for months there will be a sun shinning again. Pain is temporary but, it can last as long as you let it. Yes, you have to grieve and it may feel as if the grieving will never end but, it will whether it take a year or a day the pain will eventually go away if you let it go. People tend to hold onto things that are already gone, but it's something that will take time and more pain to let it go but that all you have to do is let it go.
This life can be a pain and you can wish for it to end but, look at it as a roller coaster it can be fun and only last a second or you can keep going and make new decisions and go on new rides but one day the lights will go out and you will have but a moment to look back on all of the rides and decisions you've gone to and you'll have to be proud or you'll have regrets maybe even both. You are born and you die, if you have the worst job in the world and you hate it what's going to be the point of you keeping it? When the end result is all the same all around. Do somthing you love and make your life worth living or on that death bed you are going to wish you did.
Live the life you'd want for a loved one, make yourself happy, go on a trip, get a new job, marry that person do what you want. Not what anyone says but, what will make you happy. If you make excuses that means you don't truly want it or it means you fear it. Life will be scarry anyways you might as well make the best of this life and make yourself happy rather than trying to please everyone arouond you. Not everyone will always be pleased, never be anyone's bitch. You are the Alpha in your story! Now go out there and be a Bad Ass!! Live up the one life you have.